College kids love the care packages that their parents mail from home. But what happens when they rip open a box to discover that the goodies have been sent from someone else’s mom? Forty kids, all graduates from Ridgewood High School in Ridgewood, New Jersey, were treated to a surprise when their moms gathered together for a college care package party.
Their mothers picked names out of a hat, assembled a box of treats, and tucked in a personal note of encouragement to a freshman who was not their own kid.
Angele Kassar Ekert, a mother of two college kids and recent empty nester, was the mastermind and she invited, in her words an “eclectic” group of mothers from among the class of 450.
Her invitation read “My Kid Left for College and I Need a Drink” and she asked the invitees to bring 40 “somethings” – inexpensive gifts or snacks that a college kid would appreciate – along with their own teen’s mailing address.
How to Throw a College Care Package Party
Some invitees were close friends but many were mingling with moms whom they had never met. (Ridgewood HIgh School enrollment is 1800.) Her plan was to include people who she thought would enjoy getting together to toast the kids, prepare a box of goodies, have a glass of wine and enjoy a few laughs.
The college care package party invitees placed the treats on Ekert’s dining room table and gathered what they wanted for the kid whose name they chose. She had purchased note cards with a star motif for each person to write a few words on. Before they left, Ekert took a picture of the group and made copies so everyone could include the photo, too, in each box.
And the reaction? She said “The moms loved it and were so happy that they were meeting new people, even though their kid had graduated and moved away.” All week she’s been getting texts and emails from people telling her how much they enjoyed it. “Everyone embraced it and thought it was a ball.”
One college girl texted her mom, “My week is made. I was already having a good day but now it’s even better.” She included a picture of the all the varied gifts she’d received, the note and photograph, all spilled out on her dorm room bed.
Care Package Party: Snack and Gift Ideas
Frisbees, Advil, coffee cups w/Keurig cup, cup o noodles, spoon/fork/knife combo, ear buds, deck of cards, Emergen-C, granola bars, candy, cookies, chips, hot chocolate, Nutella, and Rice Krispie Treats. For more college care package ideas:
Why not treat yourself while you’re thinking of treating your college student? Now – the Grown and Flown book is available in paperback.
There is no resource I recommend more often than Grown and Flown. This book is an invaluable guide for parents who want to raise independent, competent, and resilient kids who know they are loved. Jessica Lahey, author of the New York Times bestseller The Gift of Failure
All leftover snacks were donated to the local food pantry.
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