As my daughter began her college search we soon found ourselves drowning in information. Sure, there were plenty of public lists and rankings on social media, but when it came to what she actually wanted in a school, how could she find the best fit? AI would be the answer to creating an organized and personalized college list.

We needed to gather all the important information, refine what actually mattered, and move past generic rankings. That’s when we started using AI, ChatGPT specifically—not as a shortcut but as a research assistant to help us train our search, refine our priorities, and ultimately help her make a confident and informed decision.
If you’re looking for a way to make the college search a little easier (and keep your sanity intact), here’s step-by-step how we used ChatGPT— plus some tips for making it work for your family.
Step 1: Start with What Actually Matters—And Let Students Lead
This isn’t about typing a question into AI and moving on. The best results come from treating ChatGPT as an ongoing research tool, refining prompts as you go, and training it with information you collect along the way—from college visits, Zoom sessions, financial aid offers, and direct conversations with admissions reps.
Before we even opened the computer, my daughter and I sat down and discussed her top priorities. Because let’s face it—what’s important on a college website might not be the same as what’s important to your actual teenager. This list didn’t come from thin air—it evolved as she visited campuses, talked to students, and learned more about what felt right.
After visiting one school, she realized that nearly 80% of students were from out of state, which made her rethink what kind of balance she wanted. We added a row to our comparison table tracking in-state vs. out-of-state student ratios. Another visit revealed that a particular school’s student body was overwhelmingly female—a fact that wasn’t obvious from brochures. She decided that having a more balanced gender ratio was important, so we updated our ChatGPT prompt to track gender distribution across her top schools in addition to noting economic and racial/ethnic diversity.
The best part? These weren’t things I thought to ask—she drove this process, making sure our research reflected what actually mattered to her.
Step 2: Use ChatGPT to Create a Comparison Table—And Refine It Over Time
One of the biggest challenges in the college search is keeping track of everything without 500 open tabs on your browser. (Or, in my case, a million Post-it notes.) We used ChatGPT to create a side-by-side comparison table with all the key details, so we could easily compare schools.
Then, as my daughter’s priorities changed, so did our prompts. Every time we refined what we wanted to track, we told ChatGPT, and the results became more useful.
While it was helpful early in the process, ChatGPT became most valuable after my daughter received financial aid offers and decisions from honors colleges. At that point, we weren’t just comparing schools—we were making real financial and academic decisions.
(You can find a full summary of our prompts at the end of this article.)
Step 3: Upload Your Own Materials & Train the AI
One of the most valuable things we realized is that you can upload materials from college visits, Zoom sessions, and admissions handouts into ChatGPT to train it on what’s most relevant.
For example:
- Campus tour takeaways: Upload notes from tours and ask ChatGPT to summarize themes across schools.
- Financial aid offers: Input different aid packages and ask ChatGPT to compare real costs and return on investment.
- Program details: Compare programs to see differences in benefits, requirements, and student opportunities.
This turned ChatGPT into a personal research assistant, refining the information based on her actual experiences instead of just pulling from generic search results.
Step 4: Don’t Try to Compare 100 Schools—Use AI to Narrow It Down
While it was tempting to throw every possible school into the mix, this works best when used for refining your top choices. This isn’t just a one-time search—it’s a living research process that evolves as your student learns more about what they want.
In the beginning, we trained ChatGPT by testing it on just a few schools—then, when she was closer to making a decision, we used it to compare her final options. The “Choose This School If…” prompt ended up being the most helpful summary of months of listening, learning, synthesizing, and customizing.
- Choose the University of Georgia if… you want a large, spirited campus with strong in-state connections, a big football culture, and a prestigious honors college.
- Choose Tulane if… you’re looking for a smaller, more intimate school with a strong service-learning focus and an urban New Orleans vibe.
- Choose the University of Wisconsin if… you want a strong research institution in a classic college town with a strong out-of-state student presence within driving distance.
This was the moment when everything clicked. My daughter wasn’t just seeing stats—she was seeing her actual decision, spelled out in real-world terms.
Final Thoughts: Make ChatGPT Work for Your Family
At the end of the day, no AI tool can magically make a teenager decisive. (Wouldn’t that be nice?) But with the right approach, it can help your student make a complicated process feel a little more manageable and a lot more empowering.
Copy & Customize This Chat GPT Prompt
Here’s a summary of all our research prompts over many months. You can and should adjust it to fit your child’s priorities.
“We’re conducting a detailed comparison of colleges, I am a high-achieving senior planning to major in Biology on a pre-med track. I want to evaluate multiple universities across academic fit, social and campus life, finances, pre-med and career opportunities, and overall student experience. Please provide detailed comparisons for the following universities: [Insert List of Colleges Here]. Specifically, I need information on the following categories, organized into a table with rows for each factor and columns for each school. Include sources and URLs for fact-checking. Summary Name of School with City and State Private or PublicTotal Number of Undergraduates Total Enrollment (Undergrad + Grad Students Combined) Incoming Class Size Campus Area in Square Miles Population of the City Where the School is Located Academic Fit Honors Program Prestige: Does the school have an Honors College or just an Honors Program? How competitive is it, and what benefits does it offer? Honors Student Perks: Do honors students get priority registration, smaller classes, research opportunities, capstone projects, etc.? Academic Profile: What are the average GPA and ACT/SAT scores for admitted students? In-State vs. Out-of-State Acceptance Rates: How competitive is admission for out-of-state students? Are there any trends in enrollment to be aware of? National Rankings & Reputation: Where does the school rank nationally? Is it considered a Public Ivy or a highly regarded private school? What are the sources of this information? Private vs. Public Experience: How do resources, class sizes, and the overall campus experience compare? Honors College Requirements: If applicable, what are the requirements to graduate with honors? Social and Campus Life Campus Size/Setting: How large is the campus? Is it in a college town, urban, or suburban setting? Honors College Housing: Is there dedicated honors housing? Is it required for first-year students? Greek Life: What percentage of students participate? Clubs & Activities: What extracurriculars are available? How many students participate, and what are the most popular? Traditional College Experience: How strong is school spirit? What role do athletics play in student life? Social Life (Party Scene & College Town Vibe): What is the nightlife like? Are there plenty of social events? Diversity & Inclusion: What is the racial, socioeconomic, and geographic diversity of the student body? Gender Ratio: What is the percentage of male vs. female students?Political Climate: How does the school and surrounding area lean politically? Is it welcoming for students with different views? Socioeconomic Diversity: Is there a mix of financial backgrounds? Dorms & Dining: What are the first-year housing options, and how well-rated is the food? Housing Policies: Is freshman housing required? How easy is it to secure off-campus housing later on? Finances & Value Annual Cost After Scholarships: What is the total cost of attendance after financial aid? Return on Investment & Value for Cost: Does the quality of education match the price? Cost of Living: What are the typical costs for rent, food, and entertainment in the surrounding area? Pre-Med & Career Opportunities Medical School Pipeline: How strong is the school’s pre-med program? What percentage of students get into med school? Research Opportunities: How easy is it for undergrads to get involved in research? Can they start freshman year? Study Abroad for Pre-Med Students: Are there study abroad options tailored for pre-med or biology majors? Biology Facilities & Labs: What types of labs and research facilities are available to undergraduates? How many students participate in these opportunities? Curriculum and Required Courses: What are the pre-med major requirements, including core science courses and general education requirements? Other Factors Proximity to Home: How far is the school from home? Is it easy to travel there? Climate: What type of weather can students expect year-round? Final Decision Breakdown “Based on the above factors, create a ‘Choose [School Name] If…’ summary for each university. This should include 10-15 key decision points highlighting why I might choose that school over the others, considering cost, honors program quality, pre-med support, student life, and overall value written with me, the high school senior, as the decision-maker.” |
I know firsthand how overwhelming this process can be, and I’m happy to share what worked for us. Good luck with your search!
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