Ten Signs Your Neighbors Have Become Your Family Away From Family

Over the last 10 years, my husband and I have lived in eight different neighborhoods. Some were fancy, others modest; some were bustling, others quiet; some were friendly, others… not so much. But when the right neighborhood and, more importantly, the right neighbors came along, we stayed.

Good neighbors are the best.
When we found the perfect neighbors, we knew we’d found our forever home.

Here are 10 signs you, too, have found awesome neighbors:

1. They can be trusted.

Oh man, you locked yourself out again? No worries. Your neighbor to the rescue. She’s taken possession of your spare house key, car key, mail key, and garage door opener because momnesia has taken over your life.

2. They’ve got your back.

They see the creepiest guy evah loitering by your front door and alert you, the neighborhood, and the local police before you’ve had a chance to tell them it’s actually your brother. Thanks for looking out!

3. They are your in-case-of-emergency people.

When your teenager gets the brilliant idea to cannonball off the roof into the pool and inevitably breaks his arm, they will be the first at the scene (since they probably witnessed the whole thing go down).

4. They double as babysitters.

One kid is playing Fortnite and the other needs to be shuttled to soccer practice; both of your kids are mid-meltdown and you are late for a doctor’s appointment. Don’t fret. Your neighbor will be there faster than you can say, “Save meeeeeeee!”

5. They genuinely care about your kids.

They show up unexpectedly to your kids’ baseball games and dance recitals. When your kids graduate from high school, they are sitting right by your side with their very own big box of Kleenex.

6. They are your therapists.

Having a tough day? They will totally meet you on your driveway with their portable loungers and a bottle of wine and let you unload your verbal diarrhea.

7. They help make your vacations possible.

Whenever you go out of town, they take in your garbage cans, packages and newspapers. Heck, they’ll even dog-sit your curmudgeonly schnauzer if you ask them to.

8. They make you feel special.

Feeling sick? They’ll bring you soup. It’s your birthday? They’ll buy you flowers. Had a baby? They will take your tiny, hollering human off your hands while you rest for just a second of two… Zzzzzzz.

9. Their kids occupy your kids.

When you feel like a mombie (a.k.a. mom-zombie) and your offspring have successfully destroyed every surface of your home, their kids can be counted on to get yours outside into the sunshine and away from the television set.

10. They are your family away from family.

They will bend over backwards for you and your family, welcome you to their holiday celebrations, and loan you the shirts off their backs because, goshdarnit, they are your neighbors and that’s what neighbors do.

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Lauren Lodder earned her BA from UC Berkeley and her MA from CSUF. She teaches Writing and Victorian Literature at the college level. She is also the content editor for Perfection Pending and the Instagram Manager for Grown and Flown. Her writing has appeared on HuffPost Parents, Scary Mommy, The Mighty, Babble, Buzzfeed, and Reader’s Digest. You can connect with her on FB @mommyowldotcom and on Instagram @mommyowl1

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