How to Throw a Group Graduation Party: Save Money, Time and Stress

It’s that time of the year when many parents of high school seniors debate the pros and cons of throwing their teen a graduation party. For some, it’s a family tradition and a given that you host such a bash to celebrate this happy milestone. For others, hosting such a party can strike some fear. The costs are not only about all those little details that can waste your time and create needless stress. We’re looking at you, Pinterest! 

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Grads celebrate with family and family at a group grad party. (Marybeth Bock)

High school graduation party ideas

1. The Gang’s All Here

Once you’ve survived a single high school graduation party season, you realize you repeatedly see the same seniors and families at multiple parties. Most high school kids hang out in packs. And this means they invite many of the same guests to their parties.

It only makes sense to consolidate invitation lists and pool your best graduation party ideas into one event. In party lingo, this translates to “Stuff sixty kids with one huge sheet cake.”

2. Consolidate Those Resources

Like most parties, not just graduation celebrations, a singular host wakes up the next morning staring at too many leftovers, enough soda to swim in, and plastic or paper products to last a year. Don’t forget the balloons and centerpieces you also spent money on.

When four or five families share decoration and refreshment costs, you can buy products in bulk, spend less on food and beverages, and have more resources for games and party activities. And if there are leftovers, you have more families to share them with!

3. Everyone’s an Expert

With a group graduation party, each parent can shine in her or his way. You’ll find someone who loves to drive all over town and scour stores for the best deals on tablecloths and napkins. One Mom will be the crafty type who lives for sewing beautiful and “extra” pennant banners in school colors, one has a killer brownie recipe and will volunteer to manage the dessert table, and someone’s sister works for a florist who can supply flowers or decor, like a balloon garland, at a discount.  

There’s bound to be at least one Dad with DIY skills and tools to make a wood pallet, PVC pipe, and Instagram-ready photo backdrop and another whose co-worker is a DJ or owns a food truck. Let people do what they do best and use numerous networks.

4. Strength in Numbers

Whether you are planning a backyard graduation party, having it at a local park, or in a community center, it’s great to have a whole group of parents who are “in charge” and watching out to make sure teens stay safe, and the fun doesn’t get out of hand. 

High school graduation parties seem notorious for crashers appearing and sometimes getting disruptive. If your party includes alcohol for the adults, it is very helpful to have lots of eyes on who has access to those drinks.

5. Planning “Meetings”

Party preparation can be just as fun as the event itself when you have an assembly of moms doing the planning. When we were planning a group party for my son and four of his friends, we’d meet up periodically at the neighborhood community center to discuss our progress, create photo posters for our kids, share shacks and wine, and have a lot of laughs. 

Two years later, we still find time to get together and share news about our kids who are off at college.

A few group party logistics to keep in mind:

  • Your first task should be developing a budget that each family is comfortable with.
  • If one of the families can host a backyard party, great; otherwise, you’ll need to find a space for your gathering. 
  • Pick a date that works for each family. (More on that below.)
  • Decide if you will have a themed party that you can carry out with a few inexpensive decorations you can get at Amazon and easy DIY party decorations. 
  • Have the teens create an agreed upon “collective friends” invitation list, then let the parents decide how many more invites each family is allowed. Make sure your private invitees know they do not need to bring a gift for each of the graduates involved.
  • Cut down on costs by purchasing beverages from membership stores like Costco and consider having each family bring cookies, cupcakes, or other sweet treats and desserts. This leaves more money for catering entrée food only. Food does not need anything fancy – a taco bar is a popular option. 
  • At the party, have a box designated for each graduate that can hold any cards or gifts they might receive. 
  • Keep kids busy with fun activities. Find friends and neighbors willing to lend board gamesping-pong tables, a karaoke machine, Twister, and cornhole games you can order with college designs. 
  • Photo props like glasses and hats are easily found at any dollar store or on Amazon. For a fun splurge, consider renting a photo booth for the occasion. 
  • And my favorite party tip of all is to host your event before the kids’ actual graduation day. (The week before high school graduation is usually not a very busy time at school, and the kids are finished studying anyway.) This way, you avoid your party overlapping with others, people have yet to develop party fatigue, and you are free to thoroughly enjoy your child’s graduation ceremony and others’ celebrations in the following days.

Cheers to the Class of 2023!

Save time money and stress by throwing a group graduation party. Chances are your high school senior has lots of friends that want to celebrate too, so here's how to throw a grad party together that everyone will remember with activities and food and how to pool resources. #gradparty #graduationparty #graduation

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About Marybeth Bock

Marybeth Bock, MPH, is Mom to two young adults and one delightful hound dog. She has logged time as a military spouse, childbirth educator, college instructor and freelance writer. She lives in Arizona and thoroughly enjoys research and writing - as long as iced coffee is involved. You can find her work on numerous websites and in two books. Find her on Facebook and Instagram

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