Your College Student Wants to Drop a Class? Advice From a Former Dean

Early February was always an interesting time in my office. I served as an assistant dean at a large state university for ten years, advising approximately 400 honor students yearly. As the snow fell, I had a tiny lull in requests for academic advising appointments.

The craziness of the start of the spring semester was over, and the stress of fall course registration was still a few weeks away. Yet inevitably, two types of students showed up in February. The first group was planners, prepping early for registration, seeking advice on honors thesis proposals, and requesting letters of recommendation.

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Here are some tips if your college student wants to drop a class. (Photo by from Pexels)


The second type of students who came in February was less predictable. These students often showed up without an appointment because they were experiencing a small or large crisis, such as rethinking their major, having issues with their health or roommate, and, as the registrar’s class withdrawal deadline loomed, the difficult decision about whether to drop a class.

Although each situation is unique, if your child is struggling with the decision to drop a class, here are three important questions and one important fact to discuss with your student.

What College Students Should Think About BEFORE They Drop a Class

Have you talked with your academic adviser?

Students considering dropping a class should make an appointment to talk with their academic adviser as soon as possible. This conversation should not happen over email or the phone. I’ll never forget an email that said, “I am getting a C in Organic Chemistry. Should I drop the class and quit the premed track?” I, of course, immediately called the student and invited him to come to my office.

If your child asks these big questions, your student needs to carve out the time to talk with someone. Advisers can help students think through the decision to drop a class in the context of their overall academic plans, reviewing the impact on graduation or scholarships, requirements, GPA, and workload.

Some schools even offer mini-courses that begin halfway through the semester to help students maintain a full-time courseload after dropping a class. These special classes fill up quickly, but advisers typically know which courses are still open and can often assist with selecting and registering. Advisers will also discuss the advantages and disadvantages of repeating a course another semester and refer students to academic support services for those that ultimately choose to remain in the class.

Why do you want to drop the class?

It is important to uncover why your child wants to drop the class. A good adviser will also discover this information, but as a parent, you may have access to some information that your student might not share with the adviser. Is it grades, missing assignments, lack of interest in the material, or something else?

Newsflash – Getting a C or B instead of a typical A is not a good reason to drop a class. Struggling academically in college is normal, even for students who did well in high school. Students and parents should not worry too much about an individual semester’s GPA because GPAs fluctuate. Remember how an average works. As students accumulate more credits in their total, each individual grade impacts the GPA less and less.

Has your child utilized the school’s academic support services, such as the learning or writing center? In addition to traditional tutoring, most schools’ learning centers offer free help with issues like time management, procrastination, test anxiety, and study strategies. While many of my advisees regularly took advantage of tutoring, the few who went for academic coaching reported that it was extremely helpful. Most importantly, be supportive and remember that this is your child’s decision.

Do you know the deadline and procedure for dropping a class?

Although the process for dropping a class varies by school, adherence to strict deadlines is universal. If the deadline has passed, it is too late. Withdrawal deadlines are usually available on the school’s academic calendar or on the registrar’s website.

Academic advisers can also clearly explain the process for dropping a class. Additionally, students considering dropping a class should decide as early in the semester as possible. Any additional time spent in a class that a student eventually drops is time the student could have used to devote to other classes.

Finally, if your child can drop a class online, the student should attempt it before noon on a business day. If there is a problem, your child can visit an office or call someone to get assistance. Waiting until 11 p.m. on the last day to drop a class invites disaster into the process.

A fact – A W is not an F.

Rumors about course withdrawals, typically noted by a W on a transcript, ruining students’ lives run amok on college campuses. Let me set the record straight. One or two Ws spread over four years will not impact graduate school applications or future employment.

Most students have at least one W. Graduate school or future employers might question a pattern of Ws every semester or year but disregard a W on a transcript. To some people, Ws demonstrate that the student understands how to work within a bureaucracy and make good timely decisions.

Finally, once your child makes a final decision, don’t waste time second-guessing the decision. Unless the class was an upper-level physics class and your student learned how to travel back in time, the best anyone can do is make educated decisions in real-time and move forward through the remainder of the semester.

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About KarenDentler

Karen Dentlerhas over 20 years of experience in higher education. She has held positions in student life and academic administration at Rutgers University, Princeton University, and Carnegie Mellon University. Dentler has her MA in higher education from the University of Michigan and a BA in philosophy from Colgate University.

Dentler is the author of Go to Class: How to Succeed at College, a gift book for college-bound students. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok @collegegiftbook.

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